Sunday, October 21, 2007
*warning* long post that is totally random and where time will be better spent studying but ur efforts for taking time off to finish reading is greatly appreciated. nothing like good old encouragement where people bother to read ur blog. but seriously just skim through.i've had trouble sleeping these few days..all those who are with me raise your hands...i see about a thousand of you or so. Some of us have to resort to sleeping pills.. poor thing. hope he gets better.
Maybe im not tryin hard enough to sleep. like how i should be trying now. reminds me of my studies man. not trying hard enough. i really wonder i've i ever tried hard for anything before. we'll i've tried hard to maintain friendships(some need trying at times) and i've been duly rewarded. like phew huh. most friendships of cos don't need trying cos once ur a friend. ur in a status of your own. And unless you have some major drastic change in you, chances are you'll always remain my friend. The difference is how close we are but im not going to touch on that cos thats not the point. The point is we alll change. Sometimes for the good, sometimes for the bad. Simply put what is good is
whatever your friends can take and whtever your friends cannot take is bad.
I was talking to wei jie the other day. or more like asking him how to do an a math question cos someone asked me. but anyway i said some things n he was saying what happen to confifuck me. ok he didnt say that exactly but along those lines yah. Now that was a rude awakening. i never really thought along those lines. i like the old me what do you think. if you think i haven changed better yet. haha i consider it a good thing.
i think i need to start being mean again.
Oh with reference to a recent blog post on whether the education system should be blamed. i say yes. because it is the people we hang out and the ordeals and experiences we go throught that make us who we are. N that is y everyone is different. because they have a different set of experiences. This includes education both in school at home. Which gives a little insight on y some people *cough*
like my mum *cough* stereotype people based on anything from their nationality(usually malaysians and them being kumpungish), dialects(cantonese are mean and hakka are cheap skate) and size(fat girls are a big turn off to her). Which makes me wonder..what if my mum was a cantonese/hakka from malaysia who was fat. i think she would totally hate who she is now. hahaha random thought yah. I mean yah so one's upbringing matters but hey whoever said the hokkiens and teochew were better at it. though she does admit that
hokkiens like to blow things out of proportion(i know people like that =D) and
teochews blow their own horn. or the other way around i cant remember.
Funny thing is i know perfectly fine people of our generation who don't fit that description. Even when mum claims it transcends generations. btw no i did not have a quarell with her i just need something to talk about. my favourite blog posts aren't those of what i did but just utterrandom crap.
Back to the point Abby's a hakka but she's no stingy *censored*. Darren's hakka too but he's so rich he doesnt need to be stingy. Ok so michelle wong is a bit kumpungish that based on mum's experience she is easily recognisable as a person with malaysian roots. madam's from malaysia but tha doesnt stop her from being the best teacher i've seen. any student who dislikes her is sick in the mind. period. Okay so randy is abit weird but hey glen's weird too but he's not very malaysian. poor him. few weeks before a's and he had to suffer an emotional trauma. The whole world must have seemed to crash on him when he found out
HWEI TING HAS A BOYFRIEND WHO'S NAME IS GUAN QI. you're welcome boss. where was i? eh i missed out cantonese. Eh my gf is cantonese and from hong kong. Like what can i say so mr hon did warn me about my "mother-in-law" of which is true to a certain extent. But i wouldnt exactly put it down to her origins yah. its not like me haha. i don't choose my friends based on their dialect. or race if u were all wondering. yes so i do buly naim n told lies to hakim's girlfriends to get him into trouble but i wasnt't alone and besides terry(chinese
gay boy gets it too.1 more thing i have an indian
hating dislking indian friend. yes that one who peed into the water cooler.
fat girls. oh come on they have a low enough self esteem with people like me around. its not easy being fat like naim. or someone else i know. its a guy so don't worry girls. Btw if u think u fall under the category of fat girls and ur waist line is under 30 assuming ur near my age, i'd say if u were fat does that make me godzilla? i know im hot lah but that
i dun wanna be godzilla. im chased around enough thank you very much. so "fat" girls out there. if ur my friend, ur not fat not beause i dun hang around fat girls i just dunno any. That does not mean i am about to go look for one. im happy with what i have. not as i can be but very is enough.
speaking of which i wonder if "you know who" is hokkien or teochew. if stereotyping holds true he's hokkien. and that just makes about every guy/girl who thinks they're gods gift to the opposite gender a teochew. welcome to the i think im hot but most of the time if not all the time nobody else thinks so gang. I bet theres plenty more of shameless people out there. suo wei
一山还有一山高. xiao di zi kui bu ru. So anyway with our generation alot of things are lost. In some cases it would be our dialects. im like so gonna get mum to teach her grandchildren. In another case it might be certain traditions. for eg if u ask me how a chinese wedding is supposed o be carried out n what are the rules i wouldn't be able to answer you. And most importantly stereotyping like the way my mum does is lost too. not that i don't trust her but yeah somethings are best left to be experienced ourselves. of which i have..kind of. but then again jiang shi lao de la so they cant be all too wrong. bu guo wo bu shi jiang,
wo shi huo la(hot) de la jiao. heh..
hmmz neil humphrey talks about his mum alot too. i kinda of understand y now. its just fun. especially if the "victim" doesnt know. ok i've been at this for quite some time already. over half an hour. its been fun talking to you bloggie. And you. the person who managed to reach this point be it by skipping or otherwise. heres a song for you.."
congratulations in celebration......"
